In its current state, Arma IS just a beta. A beta which i paid in full for. I'm not going to walk away after paying my money because the game isn't finished. I am going to get my moneys worth out of it. If that means ruining servers, enjoying hearing people bitch and complain, then that has got me some satisfaction out of it.
If i went to some guys party, and it sucked, damn right id spit in the punch, throw up in a bed, piss on the couch and screw the guys mother, id say that was worth my 5$. Im creative enough to make my own fun out of something that just isnt fun. Thats the beauty of this world, i have total right to be an asshole if i wish, and the sooner you realize theres nothing you or anyone else can do about it, the sooner you will stop wasting your time.
If BIS gave everyone who wanted it a full refund, that would be a start, rather than making an expansion instead of fixing the game we already paid for. But as D3 said, its also the community. I was on a server last night with the multi hack, the admin is giving everyone shit about someone cheating, i kept quiet to see what was going to happen. Then i see the admin speedhack to the front lines. I said something and he replied "its my server, i can do what i want" and banned me. Quick ID change later and im back on and EVERYONE was speed hacking. It was so cool, carpet bombs and tower buildings (i guess it was my first look at the SCP in action

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Ill say again, i paid my money, if what I'm doing disrupts your enjoyment of the game, its tough shit. Deal with it. Because there is NOTHING you can do about it.