cant we just all get along before we have another subsky thing going where everyone takes the sides of one of two people and then therefore splitting the community in half, red vs blue type stuff.
you don't have to agree, just try to not agree in private, as in the tkc disclaimer, current revision, Rule #1 , states that you must stay on topic, and also in the disclaimer rule #2 says that all personal questions must be PMed, I believe there were some personal off topic questions in here aimed at one another.
SO in other words, they created Private Messaging for a reason, lets not do this crud in public anymore. Or better yet, don't waste TKC's in-box space with this nonsense. This is a simple problem with a simple solution.
If needed i will act as a mod between your discussion. talk through me to prevent mindless argue.