Are you just trying to JOIN or join as admin?
In the two years that you have been here it is strange that you never tried to set up your own VC listen server.
You need to set up a remote admin password in the menu before you start the server if you want to join as an admin.
If you want the HB icon to show in front of your server in the game browser but be able to allow cheats:
1) Deleat HB.
2) d/l the HB files from TKC and install HB202
3) Turn off servers auto update when setting up your server.
Speedhack,super jump,weapons hack,ammo hack and VCHook 3.1 will now all work on your server for everyone and people with HB202-206 can all join (players above HB202 may have some cheats detected).
Have fun.